There is so much wrong with secular counseling in our country. I know that I am no expert on the situation and that I really can’t offer many solutions, but here are a few thoughts that you might want to know.
1. First off, let’s start with an unbiblical approach. Anyone in the counseling profession has heard statements like “we don’t have bad people, we have good people with bad problems”. Really? Good? I’m surprised at how many Christian counselors will try at tell you the same thing despite the Bible saying that there is none that is righteous. I’ve heard a Christian counselor tell me (and others say the same thing) that when God looked on man, He saw that everything was good. Therefore, man is born good. Okay, maybe if a man was born to Adam and woman before the fall, then that child would be born good. But we have no record of such child. All we have are children born after the fall and therefore children are born sinners, not born good.
Think about this. Cain was born into a world that was the least affected by sin and was born to parents who were the least affected by sin, and he still became a murderer. He wasn’t a good guy with bad problems, he was a born monster of iniquity just like everyone since then save One. Because of this foundation that counseling is so falsely set upon, all that counseling does is encourage, encourage, encourage.
According to secular counselors the biggest sin that you can commit is to hurt a person’s self-image. If you put doubt in their confidence then you might as well offer them a gun for suicide.
This is ANTI-GOSPEL. If you tell a guy that he’s all good, then what does he need Christ for to enter heaven. He’s a good person who has an alcohol problem. He’s a good person who has difficulty in avoiding temptation to abuse his children. He’s a good person who happens to also be a registered sex offender. No, you aren’t a good person, you are a person that has known nothing but sin. You don’t even know what a good person looks like and if you keep listening to the secular counselors, you’ll never find Him.
2. I did a little research tonight and found out that America spends about $25 Billion on mental health services if I read this information correctly. (http://mentalhealth.samhsa.gov/databases/databases_exe.asp?D1=&Type=PC&Myassign=list) I know that it’s up for debate at what a success is in the counseling world, but let’s just say that their are 250,000 people that have successful counseling and have their mental health problems under control. 25,000,000,000 dollars on 250,000 people = $100,000 per success. Hmm. I don’t really know what to do with this information, I just thought it was interesting. Maybe coupling it with the next point might do something for you.
3. If counselors were doing their jobs then they would run out of clients, so I think that sometimes they don’t try as hard to fix their clients. I know that’s a harsh statement, but let me explain. If I had a client and I really enjoy meeting with him, then I will continue to meet with him if he needs assistance or not. It’s easy money. I get to sit down with a man who no longer needs counseling and talk with him for an hour and get paid (usually by the government) to do it.
Most jobs in America are based on performance. If I work at as a dishwasher, I get paid to successfully wash dishes. If I don’t, I get fired. If I work for a help desk, I get paid to successfully handle questions. I could go on and on with jobs like this. But a counselor does not get paid to successfully handle problems, he gets paid to meet with clients. If he doesn’t meet with clients, he doesn’t get paid.
No counselor would ever admit this even to themselves, but if my paycheck depends on whether or not I’m meeting with a client and I’m running low on clients, I’m not urgently trying to help with their problems and lose my client. From my very limited experience I know of several occasions where clients were dropped and kept not because of their performance, but on the basis of the counselor’s client number. I know of clients who were dropped because their government funding ran out.
Like I said, I don’t have any solutions, but maybe you do, I’d like to read them.
NN